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​This One Simple Switch Will Make Your Relationship Stronger

​This One Simple Switch Will Make Your Relationship Stronger

When you get into a new relationship there is a period of time that you have to truly get to know each other. You’re still in your honeymoon phase and everything is rosey with unicorns and sunshine… until you have your first fight. What happens now? Was it a deal-breaker? Do you stop talking for a while? Not sleep till you figure it out? (BAD advice, FYI – sleep on it, always) But all of a sudden the tables have turned and you are in uncharted territory. How you deal with conflict will define your relationship whether this is a casual fling or something long-term…

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The Biggest Sacrifice I Made for my Marriage

The Biggest Sacrifice I Made for my Marriage

I was chatting last week with a few girls about love and relationships and I was asked: “What is the biggest sacrifice that I’ve made in my marriage?” I had spent the entire night chatting away, but on this one – I was stumped. “Sacrifice? What do you mean? I love being married. I chose my partner myself, he’s wonderful to me. What sacrifice could I have possibly made?” Three days later, it dawned on me. 

You have to understand that I married one of the sweetest, kindest, and selfless men there are in the world. He wants the best for me and almost always over what’s beneficial for him. He is the kind of man that every woman should marry, and he doesn’t ask for much from me. But this one thing was important to him. 

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Why My Husband Would Never Get A Prenup

Why My Husband Would Never Get A Prenup

Being engaged is such a magical time. Everyone is congratulating you and you wake up every morning staring at that shiny metal on your finger. You’re ecstatic, yet stressed about the wedding you are about to have. But just like you have to have the conversation about your guest list (and how your stepdad’s second cousin’s niece cannot come) – you need to discuss sensitive topics with your partner…

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One Thing I Wish I Had Known About Marriage

One Thing I Wish I Had Known About Marriage

There is no particular reason why I am entitled to give you advice on marriage. I’m not your grandparent who has been married 50 years or an award-winning relationship counselor. I’m simply (see what I did there?) a woman who has been with her partner for quite a while and is coming up on 3 years of marriage. Over this time, I’ve learned a few things.

When you get engaged, you’ll learn that…

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Two Year Wedding Anniversary

Two Year Wedding Anniversary

Today marks my two-year wedding anniversary I wanted to share some memories of the most amazing year that my husband and I have had. Sahir and I have together for 11 and a half years and happily married for only a short portion of that time. This past year has been…

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What Are The 5 Love Languages & Why Is Everyone Obsessed With It?

What Are The 5 Love Languages & Why Is Everyone Obsessed With It?

For years I have heard about the book, The Five Love Languages. It was actually Mae who first told me about it. As a quick premise for the book, it basically establishes 5 ways that people love with the notion that if you understand yourself and your partner you are…

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What To Know Before Traveling With Your Beau

What To Know Before Traveling With Your Beau

For this week’s #REALationshipGoals, we decided that since this time of year is all about travel – we needed to dish about our favorite #Baecation. Lauren just got back from Mexico City with the girls and is currently in Paris with Megan and Jessica (uh, jealous…

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Rapid Fire Relationship Q&A

Rapid Fire Relationship Q&A

Happy Friday! Welcome to another week of #REALationshipGoals and this week it’s my turn to pick the topic & the format so we will be mixing it up. I can’t believe that this is the 18th volume of our little series. This column has brought so much joy into my life and…

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You Need To Apply THIS RULE To Your Relationship Immediately

You Need To Apply THIS RULE To Your Relationship Immediately

Have you ever heard of the 80/20 rule? Maybe you’ve heard of it when it comes to fitness or eating healthy, but what about in your relationship? New data shows that if you are in a “successful” or “healthy” relationship…

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